Relationship advice

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Whats that about??

My head hurts 

I've got tons more about this, but I have some things to do, so I have to run

Can I PM you for advice on things.

I feel like I'm caught between a rock and a hard place!!!!   

Of course.  Please do.  I appreciate the courtesy, but you didn't have to ask.   

My girlfriend is in America at the moment. San Francisco to be exact and i'm wondering whether i should send her a copy of the mail to see what she thinks.

Yes you should send it. Be honest with her. Even in something bad happens.

Yes you should send it. Be honest with her. Even in something bad happens.

Easy for you to "say."

I'm not exactly advocating hiding the e-mail, but don't send it -- it's too easy to misinterpret e-mail and things like that when sent over the 'net.

If you must show it, show it when you can both talk about it face to face.

Things aren't going well. I think it may be me. She's nice but.........?

I dont know     

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try to give the top reasons why you don't know what to do.

It's not a game show.

Besides, if he had concrete reasons, he'd know.

Feelings are hard to sort.

I'm finding it hard to connect to my current girlfriend. Shes nice but, there's nothing there for me. It's really hard. I've got a feeling that i'm going to end up upsetting her.

My ex-girlfriend (we split about 8 months ago) is moving back to her family, about 230 miles away. That's all i can think about. I want her to be happy, but knowing that i'll never see her again is really upsetting me. I don't want her to go. I know i still love her, i can't seem to shake it.

I'm really ^*%*$£$** off at myself for feeling this way. Knowing there's nothing i can do. BAH!!! AND DOUBLE BAH!!!
   
AAARRGGHHH!!!!!

(i'm gonna slope off a have a good cry!!!)

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I have just split with my girlfriend. She's really upset. I think it's for the best though. I can't do it anymore. It's not fair on her. Now she hates me. She now joins the list of people who don't want to speak to me. I feel such a git. I suppose i am. 

I said 'there's nothing i can do' because my ex wouldn't even consider me and I don't think she ever will.


Well, there goes another night of emotional grief in the reddevilggg household.

 

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you said you have just split up with your girlfriend is that in like an hour ago are so ago are about 10 minutes ago i noticed there was only a 16 minute difference between posts

If she doesn't even want to consider you i'm afraid that's her decision and there's nothing i think you should do about it besides try to talk it out are has she already told you she doesn't want to talk about it anymore--And if she doesn't want to talk about it i think you should leave it at that you can't make somebody love are want to be with you. If they don't want to.

I shouldn't be so hard on yourself. It was only 6 months since you split with your ex. You need to give yourself time to get over it and be yourself again.

You had a relationship that didn't work out shortly after a fairly traumatic break up. There is no wonder it didn't work really, but you were open and honest about that from the beginning. The new ex probably doesn't hate you, she is just upset and hurt. Give yourself a break.

Try and look at the positives. You know that you can meet someone else. That's positive. Other women like you. That is also positive. You are better about your original break up than you were. You said you have come out of things better than you went into them, that is positive.

Don't look at the negatives so much unless you are going to learn from them. Like don't rush into relationships when you're not over a previous one. 

You didn't set out to hurt this other woman, you just didn't know how you were going to feel. That is forgiveable.

AS for your ex leaving to live 230 miles away. Maybe that is good. It may help you to close that chapter and move on that way.

Anyway, good luck with it all.

Take care of yourself.