Relationship advice

To be absolutely honest, that isn't what I wanted to hear. Nevermind.

I'm gonna go away. 

Sometimes what you want to hear and what you need to hear are different things. There's only so long you can feel sorry for yourself about things that aren't going to change.

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I think it may be the hard drive...have you run the diagnostics from the drive manuf. site ? ?

Hey man, just relax, give yourself a break. Its better for bolth of the people to be happy. Anyway, why not give yourself a break from relaton ships. (urgg im a mental mess right now myself im not going to say next part)

I think it may be the hard drive...have you run the diagnostics from the drive manuf. site ? ?

What?

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What?

Or double-check if it's the correct RAM...

don't forget to try a PS/2 keyboard.

Sorry about my earlier post, I was not mentally stable at the moment.

Now about you
I think it is best if you just stay out of relationships for a while. It seems like to me that you have been in and out of them for quite some time and it is time to take a break and get orientated. Once you feel confident and have put your ex-wife behind it will be time to decide wither you think you are ready to be in a relationship.

Also:
The past is behind, the future is in front, and you know what the past is but the future holds mystery yet to be discovered.

It's usually the floppy that loses its drive.

To be absolutely honest, that isn't what I wanted to hear. Nevermind.

I'm gonna go away. 

Gosh, I hope he didn't do anything drastic. He hasn't been active since he made this post.
I hope that he meant he was just going to go out and enjoy some fresh air, but that "I'm gonna go away" remark worries me.

Does anyone know him outside of the forum?

In March me and my fiancee split up and it messed me up. I loved her so much that my brain went in to meltdown and I went into a depression that turned me into a mental and emotional wreck. I did stupid things and attempted things, anyway. It was a long and very dark road that i couldn't see the end of.

Thank you JJ 3000 for your concern, I really appreciate it.

I have been thinking long and hard, almost to the point of meditation, about certain aspects of my life. I split with a fantastic woman because, for some inexplicable reason, i thought i might have a slim chance of something happening with my previous ex (googlemistress), But as you can see by her last post, 'things aren't going to change'. I don't even know why i thought they would. It brings to mind 'Fool' by Henry Rollins

I'm a fool when i need you
I'm a fool to believe
My heart is so wide open
I'm so easy to deceive
I'm a fool i keep believing
I'm a fool i believe at all
I'm a fool who'll keep on trying
and like a fool i will fall

Anyway, like i said, i've split with a fantastic woman because of this. So, i've sat her down and told her everything that has happened, the way i feel, the way i thought i felt, my outlook for the future, why i think i feel this, why i thought 'this and that' etc etc. EVERYTHING. She listened, she was upset we had split. She talked, i talked, we both cried and the outcome is that we are dating again. We sorted alot of things out. It also seems, because we had a long, honest and emotional conversation, that i've finally exorcised my ex out of my head. As soon as it all came out it was like a weight lifted from my shoulders and dark clouds parted to reveal sunlight. My current girlfriend has been there for me through some crap times. Even before we were together she was there for me when i 'attempted things', she has been like a rock, she still wants to be here now and that says alot. (She's mad, only joking). I now know that i can give her what she deserves. My undivided attention. 100%. It's weird how it took this to bring us closer together, but now i'm really happy.

Thank you to everyone who read this and gave advice. It's much appreciated. Especially in a computer forum. (like i said in an earlier post, i'm not a member of many forums, but i'm glad i posted it here).

If anyone has any questions or more advice, please feel free to post. Thanks again. 

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Have you checked out the hard drive as was suggested ? ?

I suspect they did that after they talked.   

It's always a lack of communication.......the rest of the time it's infidelity, usually caused by a lack of communication, usually caused by a lack of........ohhh......never mind.

It's good to see a smiley face in one of your posts again hope they continue.