Meredith,
some other things you can try:
Connect the USB cable to the PC (with the camera connected and turned on, make sure the camera batteries are charged) - you will need the original camera setup disk for this. Make sure the original software is installed.
- check the Device Manager under System Properties (Control Panel)...is the camera listed (it could be under Drives)? If yes, does it have a yellow question mark or does it show any other problem (i.e. driver not installed, conflict, disabled...)? If yes, press the Remove button.
- if the camera is not listed under the Device Manager, is there anything else listed showing a yellow question mark? If so, this could be your camera. If you think it is, do the same as above and remove it.
- restart the PC, do not remove the camera and cable connection
Did the PC recognize new hardware when you restarted? If yes, insert your setup disk, and browse to it via the new hardware window. It should recognize the drivers on the original disk and continue with installation. If it doesn't locate them, you are browsing to the wrong folder or the disk is bad. Note that many camera drivers are supported by Win ME, so that it might not even need the disk.
Does the camera now show on her desktop or My Computer? If yes, then done. If no, then let us know what happend. Let us know anyway.
Hope this helps!
Dell