Buzzyonthelake, if I understand your original post correctly, you have onboard video (not an AGP card), which is rated AGP 2.0. Is that right? In other words, that video connector does not use one of the wide slots on back of your computer, like the PCI slots; instead, it's located among the other connectors (mouse, keyboard, speaker, etc.) coming off the motherboard. Right?
You may be able to use that AGP port to set up your 3-monitor configuration. Why not try it, before buying another card? Have you ever used that port? You may need to change a setting in your BIOS? If you used the AGP port at one time, did you have to change a BIOS setting when you stopped using it and installed the PCI card?
If you can not get the onboard video to work with your PCI card, then you'll have to buy another PCI card. Note that I'm assuming you do not have, in addition to onboard video, a separate AGP slot. I would stick with nVidia; this will reduce the possibility of conflict. I have had multiple monitors attached to my computer in 3 different configurations. I currently have two monitors attached to an AGP nVidia GeForce4 Ti4200 card. But, I have also used the two monitors with one attached to this same AGP card and one attached to a nVidia GeForce2 MX/400 PCI card. And, for a brief test, I had a second PCI card, a nVidia GeForce4 MX440, installed and a third monitor attached to it. No problem under any of these configurations.
You can choose a card with almost any nVidia chip and it should be compatible with your current card. A card with 64MB of memory should be quite adequate.
If you, in fact, have an empty AGP slot, and since you said your motherboard is rated at AGP 2.0, and you have the option of buying an AGP card, I suggest you not get an 8x card. Most likely, any 4x card would work in a 2x slot, but assuming that an 8x card will be backward compatible to 2x might not be a safe assumption.