Alright, alright.. this happened to me once before.. although it wasnt exactly the same situation.
Im not 100% sure why this happens, but sometimes plugging a device into the USB can cause it to completely lock up (freeze), after wich u can only close it via the reset button on the front, or in extreme cases the power cable on the back.
Now, when this happened to me the first time, i thought it was something faulty with Windows so i have it installed again. However the problem came back, somehow the PC would totally freeze every time i plugged in that device.
The only thing that does not overlap, is that u say ur PC does not turn on. Mine turned on but then froze again after only a little while.
You say that ur PC DOES turn on, but the monitor dosent display anything. Does this mean that the monitor displays the "no signal" colorful hovering box, or is the monitor competely turned off and not even displaying the orange light next to it's power button. As in, is there no difference beetween when its ON or OFF?
The PC working but the monitor staying blank (ON, as in the light near the power button is working.. but u DONT get the "no signal" box, as in its just black and nothing else) means that there is probably something wrong with ur graphics card. If there IS "no signal" then its probably not ur graphics card but some bigger problem.
Can u answer my questions, and also get another monitor to test with this PC in order to see wich one is fualty?
If ur Desktop PC freezes when u plug the Laptop to it via a USB connection, ur only way to connect them is by a installing a Local Network and transfering the files using ur Internet connection.