Many ways to invade privacy, but I am going to stay out of this.
Reasons for not getting involved:
1.) We have been sold problems on a silver platter before that are one thing, but we bite into it and its something else. The cake is a lie. (Portal humor
) ( Basically we are sold a scenario and so we assist under what we believe to be true based on what was said, but the information is used by a hacker who is lacking the skills to pull off the information stealing alone, and so we become involved in a much deeper problem as
The Cake is a Lie refers to here as an analogy. )
2.) Ethically its a problem that should be dealt with as simple as sitting down and having a conversation about what you feel might be going on with your partner.
3.) We dont need the drama of her coming here mad at us for helping you spy into her computer use.