I dated someone two years ago, who my Mom didn't like. She seemed to be unhappy and angry about me being with her as a result of a difference in values. I unknowingly logged into my FB account from my computer. Around the time that I had told my Mom about my crush, it seeemed that she distanced herself from me and ultimately deleted me on social media. We live in separate areas of the country now. My initially acted "supportive" of me when I got ditched, but she is a very manipulative and phony person. How do I know if she got in my account and made it look like she defriended me by defriending her and making her think I ditched her as FB chat was really our only means of communication at the time for whatever reason, we just didn't text/call each other and used FB instead. Also, how could I tell if my mother sent messages to her in order to keep her away and then deleted them to make it look like it was me sending them without me realizing it. It has been two years, and I still think about her everyday. My Mom has been a very devious, cruel, and generally heartless person so I would not put this past her. How can I determine if she didn't actually ditch me and this? If I don't get an answer here, I will Facebook and ask them to retrieve deleted messages and/or activity from my activity log and get to the bottom of this. I do not trust my hostile and verbally abusive and severely mentally ill mother, and I fundamentally don't believe that she 'ditched' me. I think about this woman every single day, and it has been years. In my bones, I KNOW that she did not ditch me like that, but I need help in proving this. But in my bones, I know that someone did this, and I can only think of this scenario. The traffic would have come from my network most likely, given this scenario.
