This is a temporary solution to your problem but probably the best one for someone in your position. Right click the windows icon on the bottom left of your desktop and click on settings. Select update & security which should be at the bottom of the list. Next, scroll down a little bit and select Advanced options. Lastly, switch the "pause updates" from off to on. This lets your computer be free from updates for 35 days, but you will be forced to update after that time. I recommend using this setting and when you have a spare moment to have your computer update itself, go to the page you found advanced settings on and update the computer. It gives you a fresh 35 day cycle of no updating every time you update to the latest version.
Anyone else miss the days of service packs?