I had the same issue, and for some reason I think these extenders just sort of consume part of your connection in some cases.
The only luck I've had with minimizing this was using a ubiquitin access point, which didn't seem to take much speed when I tested it.
I honestly have no idea why extenders tend to slow the speed, maybe they are just thinning the signal somehow - you'll have to get one of the more techsavvy guys on here to answer that one.
I ended up upgrading my speed eventually which of course made the problem less of a hassle, but my access points still tend to slow the speed a bit below what it should be.