OK.
I did some reading, and it looks like this particular message is strictly connected to McAfee only. I don't know, if they are going to issue some patch to correct this problem, but you're not alone.
Should I try deleting the process files mentioned in each warning?
No, you can't. Those files are crucial Windows files, and it's not Windows fault, but McAfee being too protective.
What is buffer overflow?
A simple definition of buffer overflow is writing data outside designated memory blocks when the memory block is full. Most antivirus programs use pattern files to detect the buffer overflows. So, if antivirus code is overprotective, or flawed, it'll flag legit programs as virus activity, and block them.
Since they're blocked = you can't play your DVDs.
Why you can actually play movies from your HD, after the error, but not from DVD drive is beyond my knowledge.
I don't like McAfee, but I assume, you paid your subscription, so you're stuck.
In my opinion, you have two options.
I'm not familiar with new McAfee versions, so you'll have to dig through its options...
1. You may turn buffer overflow protection off (it may have some sub-options), which isn't the best thing to do.
2. McAfee must have some way to exclude some processes from being flagged.
I wish, I could have had more help for you.