How would i bypass the router....its probably a good time to say there are 4 computeres in this house 2 desktops 2 laptops and mines the only one with this problem.
Since the problem is happening only with your PC, there's no need to bypass the router (at least for now).
Honestly, I've never been a fan of TRENDNet products. With those, you get what you pay for.
My own bias aside, your best bet would be to install an updated driver for your TRENDnet TEW-645UB.
However, just for ****s and giggles, if that doesn't work, bypass the router anyway and see what happens. To do so, either:
a) Move your computer closer the DSL modem and connect an Ethernet cable from your PC to the modem.
b) Move the DSL modem to an unfiltered phone jack near your PC and connect an Ethernet cable directly from your PC to the modem.
or
c) Run a ginormous Ethernet cable from your PC to the DSL modem.
With either option, if your DSL uses PPPoE (a user name and a password), make sure that info is stored either in the modem (if the modem can do so) or create a PPPoE dial-up connection on your PC.