I re read the post I had previously written and realized that it looks confusing. After I downloaded the newer version of itunes, I went to install. When I got to the service error : Bonjour services failed to start; abort or retry?, I went into add or remove programs and uninstalled the Apple Mobile Device support. I then hit retry and it worked, I actually had downloaded the newest version of itunes, but it wouldn't let me use my ipod with it because I didn't have the Apple mobile device support. It then told me to uninstall everything itunes and try to reinstall itunes again and when I did that I kept getting what I had originally got: Service 'Bonjour Services' failed to start. Verify that you have sufficient privileges to start system services. abort or retry?
So, do you think I can do what I did above and then install Apple mobile device support from the link you provided, or am I totally out in left field?