My friend suggest that to me and he is doing that for a couple of years
The only case, I'm aware of, it'd work, if you have two identical (hardware-wise) machines.
my friend told me to wash my mobo with water or paint tinner and let it dry for 2 to 3 days and assemble it. is it possible?
I have no idea. I'm not a hardware guy and I never tried anything like that.
Now, from your description, it looks like at least on-board video chip was dying as of lately and it finally passed away
Or, a whole motherboard was dying and it gave up recently.
I assume, this must be rather old laptop, so money-wise, it doesn't make sense to travel to a computer shop.\
I believe, we've been fighting a lost cause here....