TulsaRose, I'm not sure what you mean. The OP said right at the start that the program was Outlook Express. All email clients have an "Outbox"... My posts above were intended to clarify, not to insult or offend you, but I do apologise if they seemed in any way hurtful.
All efforts at assistance are appreciated; just sometimes careful guidance is needed to ensure we're focussing on the correct aspects of a problem.
Cheers,
Rob