Basically, Desktops are easier to cool with forced ventilation. However, Laptops should be designed for lower power consumption.
At the present time, Desktops have a slight advantage in cost, heat and performance. But desktops are to large to cray with you.
But that is clanging. With the new technologies, a CPU does not have to be hot to be 'hot'. More performance with less power is now available.
Having said that, you should take that back to the store for a full refund. That kind of heat and CPU load is way out of line for a brand new out-of-box laptop. You would erect the things to start at about 35 C and rise to about 55 C tops.
Somebody please correct me. Is 60 C right for anew laptop?