So......
Here's the solution. Probem solved. thanks to google, and every last stinking forum i ever want to read.
1.boot to windows 98 boot disk
2.load smartdrv.exe
3.fdisk delete all partitions and create new DOS partition and make active
4.restart computer
5.boot to windows 98 boot disk
6.format c:
and now for my little trick.......
7.enter bios, enable S.M.A.R.T., set boot priority to USB CD then hdd.
8.insert windows cd in drive or in my case a usb cd worked best.
9.restart computer
10.voila
something to think about, if your windows cd is dirty or scratched, you can forget it, create a backup.
there is another option.
and that is to install windows through DOS, this seems to work well too.
1-6 are the same, then
7.at the a: prompt type. c: then cd i386 then type winnt.
you can find this process by doing a google search for installing windows through DOS.
8.remove all disks in drives and restart
9.at the setup blue screen, simply set windows up on the existing partition
have a great day, thanks for the help computerhope.com NOT.