You say the card "appears to run without problems" in your friend's computer. Does that mean it performs the way it should in his computer? Does his computer have the same driver you had installed on your computer?
Tell us more about your hardware (processor, RAM, power supply, etc.) I think other hardware issues may also be causing your problem? How many Watts is your power supply? Do you know what your temperatures are running when you play games? How many fans do you have in your computer?
You said, "most of my games which ran fine before installing the video card". So, your games ran fine with integrated video, is that correct?