Wow! I figured out the problem was with my anti virus Zone alarm
Even after I put my connection in the trusted zone it would not let me connect
The only way I figured it out, was when I had another desktop working on it and then I inserted my card and connected to the internet, then decided to install Zone Alarm on this computer as well,,,,,,sure enough all the sudden I could not get the computer to recognize the connection as soon as I opened the web browser it would show unable to locate page,
I have contacted Zone alarm to try and find out why it did this.
Bottom Line .......at least I know it was not the computer!!!!! Wow problem solved