Finally, finally, finally!!!
It worked, my spooler started!
the only thing is that the spoolsv.exe file that needed to be copied into the system32 folder was in c:\windows\sevicepackfiles\i386.
I hope this is a resolution for others who are having the same problem...
Saviour, thank you so much for all of your help, I love this place!
Just to share, I had been working with hp support in a live chat to resolve this issue being that they are the manufacturers of my computer, and from my experience with them they SUCK! I could not believe that they could not find a resolution. Everything they suggested failed, and then they would try to just get rid of me by referring me elsewhere just so they could refer me right back to hp. Yeah, it was ridiculous. I was very disappointed.
I hope this helps others...