just wanna say thanks for replying guys, and the answers and responses to your questions:
The my 6800 is a pci-e as well as the xfx and it is new, and yes i may return it if my screen wont pop up at all with it in. I upgraded my bios and ill see what happens with that. I wish i can try it on another cpu but there isnt any around that i can right now.
For the f8 trick, i cant do it cause like i said i cannot see what im doing, the screen wont come up yet the cpu starts up.
There are no hardware error beeps when i put in the new card, but again i cannot see anything. Any info would be great thanks again guys!