truenorth, squall_01 and Mulreay, thank you for those responses. It gives me a clearer understanding of it now.
The modem was not in view before till I moved it recently so I guess I've never really been in a position to "see" it.
patio, I guess I dont really need to find out what its sending/receiving, just so long as I dont get any viruses or my details aren't being spread to the Nigerian scam artists, and when I wake up in the morning I'm still myself and my identity hasnt been stolen.
Evilfantasy helped me clean out my computer some time ago... so I think it might be fairly clean still.
Thanks for the reference to a program that can do it though, if I were to want to do that.
At the moment I dont want to learn another program, I have lots of websites to visit to organize my trip.
I'll have a look at Comodo soon to see what is involved though. Maybe there wont be so much that I have to actually learn.