On one hand, yes, I should have read your whole post. My apologies for that.
On the other hand:
1) Your post isn't exactly the most readable post. Spelling, grammar, and punctuation in most of the right places do help. It doesn't have to be everywhere, but for the love of God don't burn my eyes with an incoherent mess!
Just because other people use "L33T txt spk" doesn't make it any more understandable when cluttered together in a big ol' mess. Garbage in, garbage out, ya know... (you gave me a garbage effort, I gave you a garbage effort).
If you want people to understand you, make yourself understandable. Otherwise, you will have to repeat yourself to get anywhere. Not might, not maybe,
will.
2) Being aggressive doesn't help, despite your apology for doing so. Nobody has to help you at all. They choose to, and we can all choose to turn the other cheek and not lose any sleep at night.
3) You still didn't answer my question about whether or not you tried a different monitor, unless it's somewhere in that mess of an original post, and I didn't see it (does CTRL+F search for "monitor" to see, so I don't make the same mistake again--nope, you didn't answer the question).
With all that being said, try downloading the drivers from
http://www.nvidia.com. They tend to stay up to date far more than the manufacturers do.