Hm, I was able to get the task manager up in the first seconds. It has yet to freeze now that I have brought it up. I don't want to stop anything from running that I dont know what it is, so here's the top 10 memory users:
ashServ.exe (24,620) <---I have no idea what this is, I've never seen it before.
explorer.exe (20,384)
veohwebplayer.exe (17,740)
hpqste08 (13,908)
svchost.exe (13,296)
aim6.exe (10,676)
aolsoftware.exe (9,640)
hpqtra08.exe (9,376)
iTunesHelper.exe (9,025)
BigFix.exe (7,840)
And of course they're changing, but meh. I don't know what some of this stuff is on the list...