smeezekitty, whether or not you have Asperger's is absolutely none of our business, and if you do, and you don't choose to share that knowledge with us, that is your business, but if you have, (really and not a "joke") then it does change how we would react to some of your posts. For the better. Because there is a lot about Aspies that neurotypicals don't understand, and we may get angry or dismissive about things that you can't help.