Went to the big box, which is Frys in Phoenix if i can say that. So I brought the six year old laptop in, I pulled a stick and the rep ran some number said ddr pc2100 so-d pat, speed 266mhz 200 pin, patroit lifetime mem, psd1g26616s
I gb stick is $45.00usd. I looked down at my laptop that still needed a wireless card, and a battery. I thought, well, looks like this little laptop is fine the way it is. I am going to buy a wireless card that works out the box with ubuntu and that all she is getting. The rep at the store said that the ram was actually discontinued, so if I wanted it I better buy it now.
As for the hard drive, that was actually for my two year old Dell. Which presently has a 120 seagate momontus, which is 5400. It is a sata. I found another seagate 500gb 7200 for around $110usd. I decided to forgo buying a new hard drive. I will go back tomorrow and if they have a solid state I am going to buy that. Thanks for the help.