Hi,
days later I have tried the msconfig that you suggested. I actually did find the file and unchecked it. It worked. However then the message pops up that you have changed things and to go back to normal mode, which then puts the four squares thing right back. I can't just disable one item, the choice is either disable/enable all of the items or not. I still can't get rid of just this one file. Although at least I know its on the startup part. Any ideas?? I feel like I'm getting closer to making it go away, but I'm still stumped! Thanks for your ideas.