boy, you've got quite a mess on your hands here
I tried flashing my CPU, memory, and cmos.
What exactly do you mean by this?
I replaced my psu, and i replaced my mobo. still having the same problem. my monitor works on other PCs. so i am ruling that out. today i replaced my CPU on the new mobo with the new psu. and still no video on the card or on the integrated.....
So you've got a new motherboard, new PSU, and new CPU... basically you've bot a brand new computer and it's giving you the same problom?
Out of the things you've already tried, the only things left to try that I can think of are:
Have you tried a different cable for the monitor?
Are you sure the PSU has sufficient power (what the make/model of it?)?
How many ram modules do you have installed (have you tried removing one of the ram modules,
you might have a bad ram module) Try starting the computer with only one ram module at a time.