It's not about a willingness to help. Your post has only been up for a few hours. People volunteer here, and will get around to helping you when they're available.
It sounds like something about the Windows boot process has failed that is preventing you from getting into normal or safe mode. If you have the means to put the drive into another computer and backup your files, do so before attempting to fix this.
Since this is a notebook, you will likely have recovery CDs. If you never made recovery CDs or they weren't included, the computer might have a recovery partition which can be used to restore the system to factory defaults. However, using either recovery method erases everything from the computer (which is why I suggest backing up anything you want) and restores it to the condition it was when you bought it.
Unfortunately, unlike a normal Windows CD, these recovery methods usually don't include a "repair" option. However, if yours does, you can try that before doing a full restore. Still, back up your information first, as things can go wrong that are irreversible.
