WolverineGirl.....
Please forgive me if this is the most ridiculous question that is posted but I am just one step above computer illiterate.
It isn't and I don't think you are ...lol
Well , in theory , when something is deleted , it really hasn't been........it is probably still residing in the pc .....unless it was deleted by a secure scrubbing app. There are services available to possibly recover these items , however it is expensive.
Is it possible that your Email server was set up to retain a copy ?
Unless you keep a logfile of your IM's ......I think they are gone . There may be another member who may be able to shed more light on your issue.
dl65