You are not alone. Windows update 1809 has caused data loss for many users.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/jasonevangelho/2018/10/06/microsoft-confirms-windows-10-update-mistake-was-your-data-lost/#73ea63e3665bI have two machines that I updated to 1809. The first had no problem. On the second, I lost two logical ext4 partitions -- they were completely destroyed, as if their entry in the partition table was simply erased. Yet, another logical ext4 partition in the same extended partition was untouched.
When I finally got Windows booted after all updates were complete, many of the items in my start menu were renamed to include a "(1)" at the end, apps I never use (not even Microsoft apps) were given prominent new shortcuts on the right side of the Start Menu. Etc., etc. Who knows what other strange changes were made to the registry or my system disk.
So I went to Settings, Update & Security, View update history. Under 1809, I clicked "See what's new in this update." The tips app opened to the home screen, with no information of any kind provided.
There have been some truly awful Windows Updates, but this one is arguably deserving of a class action lawsuit. Just unbelievable.