Ok, update;
The LAN line now shows up when i connect it to the computer, it actually wasn't the computer's fault, it was a cord thing. When i plug the ethernet cord in, the port lights up as well, so i know there's at least power getting to it. I re-installed windows and installed the proper drivers, but it still isn't working. Here are some screen shots from what aida32 found for devices. I don't know if it'll help with anything, but take a look.
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