First: thank you for your help. Regarding computers, I have always tried to download or install as >little< software as humanly possible; embracing only what I really, really need. I dislike memory-consuming junk. Next, I de-frag and clean up on a regular basis. I use AVG anti-virus, (after getting really mad at Norton), and Ad-Aware, although Ad-Aware won't update now after I added Spy-Bot.
Your encouragement was important. I guess I have a high degree of reluctance to dive into these things, always worrying that I'll mess up the whole thing.
No, her laptop will NOT automatically recognize my router. I don't know why it doesn't. I tried to enter LAN info to send it the right direction, but that didn't work. I guess having the laptop back is the most important thing.
Again, thanks, you got me through it.
Dennis