I finally got it to where I can access my desktop from my laptop using the dyndns domain name in remote desktop connection but I still can't access it from another computer not directly connected to my router. I think my problem now is that my ISP is a wireless DSL and the antenna has a router in it. when i do some tracing i find that it shows the ip number for the local internet is one thing and mine is another on my computer, so i think it is an issue with having 2 routers and getting everything forwarded. any ideas on how to forward an ip to another ip?