Yuck.
Okay, you definitely don't want the database sitting anywhere in your webroot tree. That way, anyone can open it in a browser unless you deny access to the IUSR_*** account. You should be able to plonk the .mdb file anywhere you like, and then reference it in your ASP scripts by its absolute path (e.g. C:\safefolder\database.mdb). Unfortunately I'm not an ASP programmer, so I can't provide a code snippet.
Consider investigating MySQL and transferring your database to that. You will achieve a massive increase in performance, security and stability.
Also consider not capitalising every word in every sentence...