Either I'm missing something or not fully understanding your issue.
[ an aside but related: i had a house fire several months ago and there have been problems with everything associated with owning a house since that time...the electric company wants me to write a letter explaining that i had a fire and that i want my electric turned off, so does the gas company, so does the insurance comapny, so does the town, and so on. Everytime i'm asked to write a letter it baffles me that a phone call is not enough to say "turn off everything cause the house is gone". i keep thinking it's all a bad joke or bad dream that's saying what is requested on the phone is not enough to get the job done. So i write a letter and they ask for proof but don't say what proof might be....so here i am several months after the fire still writing letters. ]
If i recall correctly in Win 98 there was a chooice when selecting "Open with" to always associate this command with this icon. No such option that i can find exists in XP to do that. If a document is created in word pad the icon is exactly the same as Office/word. So simply double clicking always leads to the doc opening with office/word where it tells me that my trial is over and if i want to buy....etc etc, which i do not want to buy. All i want to do is to always associate that icon with word pad so on THIS computer it will open with word pad. If i take a copy of the document on a CD or jump drive to another person's house who has office on their computer then let it open in office/word. i just hate the extra steps that i have to go through to open a document that was created in the free word pad program.
Maybe what i'm asking for is not possible with a PC or with XP. That's why i'm asking here. i appreciate all of the suggestions but i already know about right clicking and chosing "open with" i just want to change the rules so i can simpley double click and have it open in word pad, not office/word.
Sorry if this is such an unusual request or that i'm explaining it wrong.